ON LETTING GO

To let go does not mean to stop caring,

It means I can’t do it for someone else. 

To let go is not to cut myself off,

It’s the realisation I can’t control another. 

To let go is not to enable,

But to allow learning from natural consequences. 

To let go is to admit powerlessness,

Which means the outcome is not in my hands.

 To let go is not to try to change or blame another,

It’s to make the most of myself 

To let go is not to care for,

But to care about.

 To let go is not to fix,

But to be supportive. 

To let go is not to judge,

But to allow another to be a human being.

 To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,

But to allow others to effect their destinies.

 To let go is not to be protective,

Its to permit another to face reality. 

To let go is not to criticize and regulate anybody,

But to try to become what I dream I can be.

 To let go is not to regret the past,

But to grow and live for the future. 

To let go is to fear less,

And love more.

 ~Anonymous~